3rd Nov
Waiting. Waiting. Waiting.
It was a day of waiting. Was meeting JH to pick up something, & she was delayed & I was 10min early. Ended up I waited almost 30min. Feeling frus from the earlier bus experience coupled with crampy, I was feeling grumpy already. On top of that I was rushing to meet a friend at 6pm.
To make matter worse, my dear friend, AL, was 1 hour late! I had skipped my Precept class & rush to meet her, she was late. Not only was she late, she did not inform me. I had to call her several times before she answered to find out she was being held up by traffic etc, and she was on the phone.
Man, if you know you are late (and you know!), you should inform me so I won’t be like an idiot waiting at one spot, not knowing what to expect. It is ok to be late, but it is courtesy to inform the other party so we can plan on the next move.
I really gave her a piece of my mind when she arrived. Good thing by the end of the day, my anger has gone off already.
I hate it when people think that just because I am not working does not equate to I have lots of time. Even if I have lots of time, they are not meant to be wasted like this. Can’t they respect my time????
Just only last month, 3 similar incidents happened. No, they were worse – 2 were a no-show.
One appt with C had her telling me she cannot make it when I am already at the meeting place.
Another with GL was after more than 30min when I called, & I was already at the meeting place waiting for 45 min (I was early), he said he was still at a meeting!!! If you were still at a meeting 30min before meeting time, it means you can’t meet me at all, you should have inform me there & then. Not after 30 min past the meeting time, & even then it was when I called. Really testing my patience.
The make-up appt with him still ended up me waiting for more than 30 min for him. I had threatened to walk out already. Being sorry is not enough…….
I intend to be late the next time I meet him, if i meet him. But still, I think he will be later!
Can anyone not get pissed? I wonder why I am even standing it when I am supposed to be a super impatient person! Make things worse when I am now making every effort to be punctual for all my appointments as best as I can. Arh………….